Tonight, I am not going to speak about my family.  Tonight, I want each and everyone of you to look at yourselves and think for a moment.  We have all disliked someone and disagreed with someone at one point in our lives.
Now I want you think about your response to this 'enemy' we'll call them.  Did you go right up to this person tell them your opinion of them and or their views?  Did you bluntly, honestly tell THEM how you felt?  Did you run to tell someone else your opinions before confronting the 'enemy?'  Did you even confront the enemy when you smeared their name through the mud?
I am by no means perfect in this.  I am usually a pretty up front person.  If I don't like you I'm not going to talk to you, I give most people a chance to get on my good side or my bad side.  I have gone out to my friends and told them who I don't like, and why I don't like them.  I've also gotten so flustered because of said 'enemy' that I just shit talked the hell out of them and didn't even say anything.
No one is innocent in this, so don't feel guilty while reading this.  I think that if you like someone you like them, that can always go sour, not all friendships are meant to be.  I also think that if you don't like someone that you should tell them and give them a reason, never in anger though.  It doesn't do you or them any good.
What I don't think you should do is kick someone when their down.  Don't make fun a person because of their insecurities, that makes you look like a dick.  Don't hide behind others while being nice to someone and then talk mad smack when they can't see or hear you.  Most of all don't make fun of someone when they are hurting.
f you can't own up to your dislike thats fine, but don't be fake.  Don't make fun of someone when their child's health is being questioned and they have no way to prove it to you.  Thats another thing, what does anyone have to prove to anyone else on equal ground.  I'm not religious but when it comes down to it, who is the one judging me on my judgment day?  I can guarantee you it sure as hell won't be you or anyone else I have come into contact in my life.
You have to look at yourself in the mirror and think about the way that you effect others.  If you can't be happy with yourself and your actions don't do it.  Make sure that when you are looking at you, that you like the person you are.  If that person is a mean old grumpy never feels pleasure in the small things...go you, if that person is light hearted and bubbly and you just love everyone ...go you.
Be honest with yourself, and with others.  Be happy with what you do and how you do it.  Enjoy the things that you enjoy and FUCK everyone else and their judgmental ass words and glares and stares and just about anything else they think they can offer you.